The Mediation.
What is going on.
Seriously.
I'm not angry anymore. I left early because i couldn't control it any longer. i had to leave to prevent myself from hurting anyone.
First. Cell Group Outing on MayDay. i have no objections whatsoever to it, for i have consecrated my Thursday evenings to cell group for the rest of my life. but notice that it is a family day - Singapore declared Labour Day is because of the simple fact that they want to promote family togetherness and welfare of workers; if you're talking about cell group meeting that's fine, but a full-day outing? We've all got reasons here and there but the rounding point here is that if it's gonna be a break, go take it. enjoy it. if you want to have a big day, you have to use your common sense, and be wise to choose the right day. If the turn-up rates are going to be an all-time low, just cancel it. a simple lunch or something would be a much more appropriate solution to a major plan that is not going to succeed. it's not like your plans are going to waste; you can keep the mystery letters and other stuff with you first, and implement it when the right opportunity comes. ( June Holidays ) I'm not going to comment anymore on this because it won't go far. we were all there to witness the situation. that alone is enough.
the next thing would be the unavailability of some members. it doesn't matter why they didn't come; what matters more to me is the reason why they are unwilling to come. for those who haven't gone for the little gatherings we had, please take a halt, and ponder over the reason why. please.
if you ask me, yes. i was unwilling to come for the big day. trust me on that when i'm being honest about something. i felt that the date, the number of people coming, etc, are just not exciting me like the way it should. it didn't feel right as how a big day ought to at all. i didn't want to go.
it wasn't just me who felt this way, i can say. those who didn't turn up would say the same. the only thing is that they are more direct in their approach. despite knowing the fact that even the members wouldn't come, i still did. but really today just didn't work out one bit.
we need to restructure things out. our mutual relationships especially. i want unity, growth and love in this cell group. but we can't do this if we do not even know how to breathe - rest comes from God yes, but that means another thing, which is that rest takes up time. we cannot overdo things really.
i'm not blaming anybody.
i implore all of us, who have read this, to take a break. really go get some fresh air. we'll talk more about this the next time we meet. our cell group is small enough, we don't need more killer stress.
God bless all.
Seriously.
I'm not angry anymore. I left early because i couldn't control it any longer. i had to leave to prevent myself from hurting anyone.
First. Cell Group Outing on MayDay. i have no objections whatsoever to it, for i have consecrated my Thursday evenings to cell group for the rest of my life. but notice that it is a family day - Singapore declared Labour Day is because of the simple fact that they want to promote family togetherness and welfare of workers; if you're talking about cell group meeting that's fine, but a full-day outing? We've all got reasons here and there but the rounding point here is that if it's gonna be a break, go take it. enjoy it. if you want to have a big day, you have to use your common sense, and be wise to choose the right day. If the turn-up rates are going to be an all-time low, just cancel it. a simple lunch or something would be a much more appropriate solution to a major plan that is not going to succeed. it's not like your plans are going to waste; you can keep the mystery letters and other stuff with you first, and implement it when the right opportunity comes. ( June Holidays ) I'm not going to comment anymore on this because it won't go far. we were all there to witness the situation. that alone is enough.
the next thing would be the unavailability of some members. it doesn't matter why they didn't come; what matters more to me is the reason why they are unwilling to come. for those who haven't gone for the little gatherings we had, please take a halt, and ponder over the reason why. please.
if you ask me, yes. i was unwilling to come for the big day. trust me on that when i'm being honest about something. i felt that the date, the number of people coming, etc, are just not exciting me like the way it should. it didn't feel right as how a big day ought to at all. i didn't want to go.
it wasn't just me who felt this way, i can say. those who didn't turn up would say the same. the only thing is that they are more direct in their approach. despite knowing the fact that even the members wouldn't come, i still did. but really today just didn't work out one bit.
we need to restructure things out. our mutual relationships especially. i want unity, growth and love in this cell group. but we can't do this if we do not even know how to breathe - rest comes from God yes, but that means another thing, which is that rest takes up time. we cannot overdo things really.
i'm not blaming anybody.
i implore all of us, who have read this, to take a break. really go get some fresh air. we'll talk more about this the next time we meet. our cell group is small enough, we don't need more killer stress.
God bless all.
posted by †LeNoir™† at
3:15 AM
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